So you’ve taken the plunge and are looking forward to those fun nookies with your friend with benefits. If you’ve always been a one-man woman, the whole casual sex arrangement with your FWB might feel a bit unsettling. Being friends with benefits has its own advantages; there’s freedom, fun and lots of mad sex, but only if you do it right. We’ve rounded off a few golden rules to follow so that you can be the best FWB there ever was!
Cut out the jealousy
If you start marking your territory with your FWB, you will be one FWB less. If your friend with benefits wants to move on and be with someone else, back out gracefully. He can hang out with any girl he wants to or chill with his buddies all day long. There’s no room for jealousy in this relationship.
Don’t be mean
Now, just because it’s casual doesn’t mean you get to have your cake and then get up and leave. Return the favour when he makes you orgasm or simply makes you feel good in bed. It’s just bad karma to be mean to your FWB and it will come around to bite you.
Keep it simple
You share the same interests and hobbies? That’s great but that shouldn’t change the focus of your relationship with him. So he likes your favourite music band. It doesn’t mean that he has feelings for you or vice-versa. Keep it simple and don’t bring love and commitment into the mix.
Keep him to yourself
Don’t make the mistake of introducing him to your friends and family. Your FWB is one person you don’t want hanging out with the people close to you. It’s natural to feel excited about your hot new friend. But it has the potential to freak him out by making him feel like you’re taking things too seriously.
It’s okay if you don’t sleep over
The great thing about being an FWB is that it comes without any strings attached. Neither of you have to cuddle, coddle or do anything else that comes close to intimacy. You can have crazy sex and leave as soon as you’re done, no questions asked!
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