13 HOT ‘Sex Challenges’ For Couples (We Dare You To Try Them!)

Sex should never be just the ‘same old, same old’. There should always be something new or exciting happening behind your bedroom doors. Here are 13 kinky sexual challenges that will definitely spice up your sex life. So take a deep breath and try to see if you and your partner can win ‘em all! 

1. Play hot and cold

If kissing is getting a bit boring, why not try something new? Take an ice cube and put it in your mouth. Then go and kiss your guy and pass the ice cube onto him. The hot and cold sensation will turn both of you on more than regular making out does! And you can’t stop kissing until the ice cube has completely melted! 

2. One kinky game per night

Make it a point to play a new kinky game every night. Give yourself a deadline like a week or a month, come up with new games and put their names on chits in a jar and whenever you are together, just pick a game to play at random. Don’t know what games to play? Here are some that you can try! 

 

3. Get each other turned on without using hands!

Have you tried not using your hands for a change? If not then here are some tricks you absolutely must try. The best part about not getting to use your hands in bed is that you can use every other part of your body instead! 

4. Do it with the lights on and not under the blankets

The usual instinct when having sex is to do it in the dark or under a blanket... But this way, when you have sex, you don’t get to see you partner’s body. Go ahead and try it with the lights on or better yet, in broad daylight. You will see the change instantly when you can take in your partner’s body as it is and love it just the same...or maybe even more!

5. Wake each other up with oral sex

Give each other a much-needed surprise. Wake your partner up with oral sex and vice versa. Decide that you will give this surprise sometime this week but don’t disclose the day so that your partner is always expecting it and when they finally get it first thing in the morning, it leaves them super turned on! Here are some extra tips to absolutely blow his mind! 

6. Don’t try the same position again for a week

Promise yourselves that you won’t try the same position more than once a week. So if you have already done missionary, you have to try something else. This gets both of you out of your comfort zones and into the sexy zone! 

7. Read some erotica together out loud!

We often underestimate the power of words. Read an erotic novel out loud in a sensuous tone. Describe the things the characters do to each other and watch as both of you find it difficult to keep your hands to yourself. 

8. Watch an adult movie together

And maybe try some of the positions or roleplays that look doable? Hey, it could be fun, you know! If it doesn’t work out then you will have something to laugh about later on. 

9. Get handsy under the table

When you’re out for dinner or lunch, use the table for more than just eating. Touch each other under the table. Go as far as you think you can! If you are with friends, this is even more adventurous because you have to pretend nothing is going on! 

10. Blindfold each other

One person being blindfolded while the other can see has been done before... Try having both of you blindfolded! When you can’t see anything, you have to depend on your other senses, the smell, the feel and the touch…especially the touch. 

11. Play a movie character

Ever wanted to be Belle from Beauty and the Beast? There is no reason why you can’t corrupt your childhood fantasies a little. Go ahead and do some role-play, be yours or his favourite character in bed. 

12. Have sex without talking

No dirty words, no moaning. Feel your silence, hear your partner’s breath hitch and release with your movements. It doesn’t get better than this, girls! 

13. Spend a naked day together!

The one where you are just cuddling in bed or playing a game...naked. Hold off on sex until the end of the day, tease your bodies by feasting your eyes on what you want but not being able to have it completely. When you actually get down to it, things will be hot and intense!