Think Patrick Swayze in Ghost and how he interlaced his fingers with Demi Moore's, sliding his fingers across her hand in short strokes, kissing her lightly on the nape of her neck, ruining the clay pot she was shaping in the process. Not that anyone cared about it by then! There's nothing like a sensual massage to get the blood pumping in all the right places. Get the 'oohs' and 'aahs' going before the actual sex begins with these erotic massage tips and you are sure to leave more than just your fingerprints on your partner's body.
Warm up the body
Squirting cold oil on your partner does not qualify as being sensual. Pour a little oil on your palm, and kindle some warmth with your hands by rubbing your palms together. Warm hands and slow caresses, that's one heady combination.
It's all about the foreplay
What's an erotic massage without some light kisses that follow the tingling trail left behind by your fingers? Think of a massage as part of your foreplay action. While kneading your partner's shoulder muscles, kiss them on the nape of their neck or let one hand carelessly travel over and trace gibberish over their chest. Even better, take it up a notch by whispering dirty somethings into their ear to have them writhe with ecstasy.
Lube up
If you plan to follow the massage session with some more sexiness in bed, lubricants are a better option than massage oils, since the oil could cause the condom to rupture. There are several lubes in the market that can be used for some massaging action too.
Go slow
Slow and steady does win the race. A sensual massage is no fun if you rush through it. Explore the length of their body and mix up your strokes and their intensity. Tantalise and torture (the sweet kind) and your partner will soon be putty in your hands.
Break the rules
While convention states you must lie down for a massage, sitting behind your partner provides you with better access to their body. As your hands work their magic, your partner can look to touch and lean into you as well, so that you don't feel left out from all the tingling action. Think Patrick Swayze-Demi Moore again (that scene does things to us!).
Squirting cold oil on your partner does not qualify as being sensual. Pour a little oil on your palm, and kindle some warmth with your hands by rubbing your palms together. Warm hands and slow caresses, that's one heady combination.
It's all about the foreplay
What's an erotic massage without some light kisses that follow the tingling trail left behind by your fingers? Think of a massage as part of your foreplay action. While kneading your partner's shoulder muscles, kiss them on the nape of their neck or let one hand carelessly travel over and trace gibberish over their chest. Even better, take it up a notch by whispering dirty somethings into their ear to have them writhe with ecstasy.
Lube up
If you plan to follow the massage session with some more sexiness in bed, lubricants are a better option than massage oils, since the oil could cause the condom to rupture. There are several lubes in the market that can be used for some massaging action too.
Go slow
Slow and steady does win the race. A sensual massage is no fun if you rush through it. Explore the length of their body and mix up your strokes and their intensity. Tantalise and torture (the sweet kind) and your partner will soon be putty in your hands.
Break the rules
While convention states you must lie down for a massage, sitting behind your partner provides you with better access to their body. As your hands work their magic, your partner can look to touch and lean into you as well, so that you don't feel left out from all the tingling action. Think Patrick Swayze-Demi Moore again (that scene does things to us!).
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